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are you a - or + influence irl?

mindful
over 8 years

do you see everything in a negative way? for example, if i asked you to travel with me, would you firstly think about negative part of a thing (ex. will there be a car accident?) rather than just being excited about the journey.

i'm like that with a lot of other things. i'm always positive about travelling though

citeopmI
over 8 years
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I am pretty negative about a lot of things because my mom raised me to believe everything is out to get me
Escurai
over 8 years
For me it depends on the time of the month
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I'm right in between
xJuicy
over 8 years
im positive of these negative vibes
Sims
over 8 years
is there a neutral option
dazeldafreak
over 8 years
I always see the negativity in things until they are memories, which is when I see how good it really was.

That applies to almost everything. Lol
jack
over 8 years
i mean i definitely have some things where i immediately think of negative outcomes before positive ones, but i think overall i'm a pretty positive person
mindful
over 8 years
more like empty
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nah brah i got more
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i have more tho
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veryniceboy says

i am probably a pretty reckless person all around tbh. i think i have street smarts to compensate for that tho lol


ditto
denial
over 8 years

Becomeclear says

not gonna lie theres no positive side to travelling with you mindful I think a better example should be put in place



do u see the cup half full or half empty
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i am probably a pretty reckless person all around tbh. i think i have street smarts to compensate for that tho lol
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mindful says

i remember when i got offered with a job, i thought about "will i be able to make a living with the salary?" i think it's good to think about negative things first before positive sometimes


that's not negative, that's being realistic. things like cars, houses, jobs etc. you have positive and negative thoughts but the primary concern should be feasibility and what's realistic, which is what your thoughts were.

in terms of travelling, thinking "oh i could get this disease" would be negative, whereas like "we'd have a great time" is obvs positive.
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because this thread seems counter to my 'live in the moment' spiel from earlier on lol
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I think of a lot of negative things first like danger mostly cause I'm scared but if there's nothing dangerous I normally think positive
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Why r u saying that lol
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i do not think cheating on girls is a very nice thing to do ftr
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Mostly positive. I'm only negative when people around me are negative af.
ScarletWolf
over 8 years
Positive about experiencing new things & traveling.

Negative about work.

Negative (sometimes) about school.

Negative about meeting new people.
mindful
over 8 years

Giga13 says

i'm positive. my last girlfriend was so negative that it caused me to break up with her. i was tired of having to always reassure her of e v e r y t h i n g


seems like she is pessimistic. i used to be like that and i guess i just changed a lot lol
mindful
over 8 years
i remember when i got offered with a job, i thought about "will i be able to make a living with the salary?" i think it's good to think about negative things first before positive sometimes
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positive i would always want to travel or go hiking and see the world *_*
Giga13
over 8 years
i'm positive. my last girlfriend was so negative that it caused me to break up with her. i was tired of having to always reassure her of e v e r y t h i n g