vnb im not actually taking an intellectual stance here I just found that line so funny I had to quote it
dw about it mate, it is funny lol
deletedover 8 years
it's actually real important to care what people think. people fit together by their vulnerabilities. that, or, like, people will play with fire too. sort of like how you used have that crew around you, peta, you giving so much sht in the forums and just that it wouldn't be anyone playing your friend. but if you don't care, you're never really going to have too much of a place in people's lives. and i think that's where the most of happiness comes from.
I think you're mixing up caring about someone and caring about their perception of you.
everyone is a big ball of insecurities. you're probably never going to mean anything to anyone unless you're propping them up on some of those insecurities. likewise, people will find it harder to be your friend unless there's a place for them in your life, something they can give you.
it's actually real important to care what people think. people fit together by their vulnerabilities. that, or, like, people will play with fire too. sort of like how you used have that crew around you, peta, you giving so much sht in the forums and just that it wouldn't be anyone playing your friend. but if you don't care, you're never really going to have too much of a place in people's lives. and i think that's where the most of happiness comes from.
I think you're mixing up caring about someone and caring about their perception of you.
A fun game to play is the one where you try to maximize the difference between the number of words Sirius says and the number of words you say in the same conversation.
it's like that trust falls thing, those actually work. or drinking with someone is probably the best way ever to make friends for the same reason, falling over with them, picking each other up, seeing each other at each other's worst and like accepting it, that sorta thing.
You would love to hear about this idea I had about combining schrodingers box and trustfall.
my opinion is right tho lol. people literally die earlier if they have less friends.
deletedover 8 years
it's like that trust falls thing, those actually work. or drinking with someone is probably the best way ever to make friends for the same reason, falling over with them, picking each other up, seeing each other at each other's worst and like accepting it, that sorta thing.