During your high school years (or whatever your equivalent was/is) were you generally popular or unpopular? For me I was a lone wolf: not noticed enough to be either.
A creep should be defined as: a perfectly normal man, but one whose attentions are unwanted by ladies in general. Unlucky, brothers. Try not to get swallowed up in being 'unwanted', though.
This black dude named Oscar told me I have a loud voice yesterday, that it could be useful for some things. So I used it to be overheard asking him 'So-and-so is hot, isn't she?' and this smile cracked across her face across the room, it was beautiful, lol. Sorry, funny. I'm like a social genius or something dudes.
deletedabout 9 years
I was reading this thing recently in psychology about the chameleon effect. I always knew what it was. I used use it inside in class to see what girls were paying attention to me, lol. Stretch or change your seating position or scratch your head or whatever, and whoever else does it is tuned into you. And it's ridiculous how sensitive it is too. One time I was sitting behind this blond girl, just in some class we were made sit in on, security or something (which I think was probably significant), but they were doing criminal justice as like an offshoot of it. So I was sitting behind her and my God was she hot. And I was dropping my pen and asking her would she get it for me. And just trying to breathe her in leaning in over my desk. And being a general creep tbh lol, but I can get away with it because I am handsome. Anyway, ends up I sat back in my chair. Next, she sat back in her chair. I scratched my head. Next, she scratched her head. And finally I laid down on my hand looking at her, amused, and, of course, she does too. So I laugh and she gets a start. Next she's looking back at me smiling, and next she's literally jacking off her water bottle for me....I never saw her again after that class, unfortunately. We left and they carried on, and I didn't stay long in that school either. But damn. It was like p0rn ...
But the point is... lol. Hardly anyone makes the first move dudes. Everyone's too caught up in being danced along by everyone else's boring sh. I mean that chameleon effect is obviously slightly suggestion, but it's not just that either. It is those Hell March videos. It's keeping step lest you be trampled underfoot. It's running with the bulls. Except all that is dumb. Apparently a trait of sociopaths is that they're removed from the chameleon effect. A certain certainty in the structure of things, I think. People will be seduced by the freedoms you take rather than hurt you for them. Anyway ...
deletedabout 9 years
I dunno what it is tbh. I joke about being handsome af and whatever, but I don't look at myself and like wet my pants every day looking at myself...I just know that other people love me, lol. I'd say a large part of it is just self-assurance and, like, not being afraid to talk to people. I figure I make a lot of friends because they just want to come along for the ride. (I am damn handsome too tho,)
deletedabout 9 years
When I was finishing primary school all my mates in primary school got mad with me and like rebelled because they figured I was only their mate by circumstance, then they were right, I left them all behind and became the most popular kid in high school. I am like... light-speed charming dudes. (That story might sound rather sillily far-fetched, but it's true lol)
