... you see a picture of your recent significant other on Facebook with this girl who he had claimed to j"ust be friends" with..in a more than "just friends" pose.....LOL
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P.S let me also note that this female he is currently with is like six years younger than him. LOL I GOT DITCHED FOR SOMEONE FRESH FROM HIGH SCHOOL.
I'm not expecting y'all to care.. I just needed to vent and this is off topic.sooooo feel free to discuss how scumbaggy people are
Omg that was mean njnj haha. But it made me laugh so idk.
Yeah he's like 25. I'm 21. What would he want from someone with limited life experience? I think when I kept calling him for 30 hours straight that one time and he never responded until two days later, he probably really was cheating on me. I can't comment on her looks because I'm not that type of female. But let's just say she dumped her boyfriend of three years for my ex. And yet these two claimed to have been only friends and he told me not to worry about her. Lol what a joke.
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'midlife crisis' sells this sort of thing short, actually. it's actually just social competition, probably the dude going back and correcting his being slighted earlier in life - his not being wanted in high school, basically - and it actually happens right throughout life, and with incredible attention to detail too (it's actually really, really ridiculous how much attention to detail). what it is is the virgin shaming game expanded, basically. but sure, this sort of thing happens a lot at midlife (due, i think, to suddenly depressed people trying to reinvent themselves, to get back their former glory), but i definitely wouldn't say it was *of* midlife. it's a sad fact, really, but a whole lot of people - if not everyone, to be honest - aren't ever going to really connect with anyone, but rather play a game by them as best they can.
wake.... to really get back at him... have bearguru make a pastebin. that'll really show hiM!
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i mean like, it's not her fault she's 19. hell, i'm 17. don't take it out on her unless you're sure he was cheating and she knew about it. even then, dont pick on her for her age. thats something you cant really help.
also why would he post that on facebook if they were cheating and trying to keep it secret? i guess it depends, either way its a crappy situation. hgrn
idk man ur the mastermind I thought you'd have a devious plan we can regroup and plan out an extremely calculated hostile takeover of the pics pls. But only after I get to see the girl that this girls boyfriend cheated on her with on facebook or whatever
Idk how I didn't keep him interested. I did say I wanted to wait before having relations with him because I'm old fashioned and I like to keep it slow. I'm anything but a boring girlfriend. Two weeks ago we hung out, I gave him some Lucy because he'd never had it, hung out like all day, cuddled and that type of stuff. I would text him every day making sure he was okay and what not, smoked him up (that gets to be expensive you know), I EVEN BOUGHT HIM FOOD! I hate feeling also like I've wasted time. Why do people want to mess with your emotions? What a cruel world we are living in. I wish more people had a mindset to be nice and to really spread good vibes.. I guess I should have known he was a loser...he is the easter bunny at the local mall and before he got that job he was jobless since August.... smh and he has holey underwear.
Tell you what buddy, It's not always about what you have in common with them but what you do to keep them. Your bf might think you're the perfect match for him yet leave you for someone else if that person knows how to seduce them away from you. It's not always about romance and love but alluring and attraction.
For instance younger girls like 'bad boys' not because they find them as the most fitting person to be their bf but because that type of persona is one that girls are most attracted to at a certain age.
Right now I'd advise you to practice and learn how to steal any man's heart (if they're single~~) and keep him *interested*. And don't worry anyone is replaceable and I'm sure you can replace your bf with someone even better.
I guess. I think I'm meant to be alone 5ever dude. It sucks..we had almost everything in common. He promised me that he wouldn't hurt me and that this girl was just a friend and he talked about how boring she is and how she doesn't compare to me. Obviously she was a lot better than me.
wake people do the weirdest sh** after break ups. Also it's really common to go through a midlife crysis in situations like this. It's still not a good reason to be break someone's heart so I feel for you.
tbh I don't know what else I can tell you here but you could PM me if you want me to tell you a lil' story explaining why someone would want to date someone way younger than them.
It's just awful because what kind of person dates someone for like a month, break up with you because they sttill love their ex, start talking to you again, then ditch you for someone who isn't even his ex. I bet they were talking and probably hooking up while we were together. UGH LASKDJFHGBFDHSJAKL;
SHE'S ONLY 19. SHE JUST TURNED 19. WHERE CAN HE TAKE HER FOR A DATE? THEY CAN'T GO TO THE BAR. HE MUST WANT TO GO TAKE HER TO GET MILK AND COOKIES.
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wake its ok. People are [REDACTED] sometimes. Don't pay any attention to schmidts like him. You don't want to be with a sleazeball anyway.
