over 9 years

How can I tell if I;m being cheated on? what are the signs??

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You have smelly feet, like really bad.
over 9 years
Disco go home!
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Furthermore, if you don't want an answer then don't ask a question on a public forum.
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wakemeupxo says

I wasn't being self-centered (that's how you spell it btw)


I guess we're not accounting for the fact that some people might be British.
over 9 years

DiscoOwl says

Suffers from anxiety and depression -> Conclusion: He's cheating on me.

Hasn't answered in 30 hours -> Conclusion: He's cheating on me.

How self-centred do you have to be to pinpoint that as A) the most important problem and B) the most instinctive problem?

Given his record, I'd just be more worried about him.

Also, as a few people have said - 30 hours with no contact probably means he's just not interested and has been putting you off for as long as he could within his right to do so.


Dude, I already said that I found him. Calm down. You always have something negative to say to me. I wasn't being self-centered (that's how you spell it btw) I am just very insecure. Leave me alone.
over 9 years

MalcolmX says


wakemeupxo says

I found him guys. He answered me early this morning. He got really high with his buddies and went to ihop and left his phone in his friend's car -____- He was glad to hear I was worried


DAMN ... that's anti-climatic -_-


Sorry Malcolm!
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wakemeupxo says

I found him guys. He answered me early this morning. He got really high with his buddies and went to ihop and left his phone in his friend's car -____- He was glad to hear I was worried


DAMN ... that's anti-climatic -_-
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Kelly says

There's no reason to not text someone back.

if we date I will know your location and what you're doing every other hour of every day don't fu** with me


Hey babes.
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Suffers from anxiety and depression -> Conclusion: He's cheating on me.

Hasn't answered in 30 hours -> Conclusion: He's cheating on me.

How self-centred do you have to be to pinpoint that as A) the most important problem and B) the most instinctive problem?

Given his record, I'd just be more worried about him.

Also, as a few people have said - 30 hours with no contact probably means he's just not interested and has been putting you off for as long as he could within his right to do so.
over 9 years
I found him guys. He answered me early this morning. He got really high with his buddies and went to ihop and left his phone in his friend's car -____- He was glad to hear I was worried
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If you don't trust his response (incase he says no), you have deeper issues.
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You ask him, and if he says "yes", he's cheating.
over 9 years
No offence but like if im not replying for 30 hours it means im just not interested or i dont care enough
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solid advice, bigmeaty
over 9 years
Well, if you see her sucking some other guy's , she's cheating.
over 9 years

Kelly says

There's no reason to not text someone back.

if we date I will know your location and what you're doing every other hour of every day don't fu** with me


exactly!!! everywhere I have messaged him it just says sent/delivered..minus text message because he doesnt have an iPhone like me.
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There's no reason to not text someone back.

if we date I will know your location and what you're doing every other hour of every day don't fu** with me
over 9 years
Well that's pretty frickin mean.
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Just to be honest, I've ignored girls I've been dating for more than 30 hours just because I'm tired of them. I'm not saying that's the case but it's a possibility
over 9 years

Sims says

if you know where he lives why not check up on him?


It's an apartment building, but I could always go to the rental office and get them to let me in. I don't want to start trouble, I'm just concerned.
over 9 years
if you know where he lives why not check up on him?
over 9 years
And he wasn't arrested in the last 37 hours. I checked. I did a court docket search with his name and he doesn't even have a record.
over 9 years
I'm so insecure and I've been hurt waaay too many times to even realize that he's such a nice guy. He is a gentleman, and I like him very much. I don't think he would play games because of how honest he is. He even told me how his crazy ex texted him two nights ago and how much he hates her. idk. I just don't get why he would shut me out too.
over 9 years
First of all, don't panic. I doubt that he was cheating on you and it's most likely just something that made him upset or afraid, or he's going through something difficult. If he's suffering from depression he might be shutting people out simply because that's what depression can cause sometime. He isn't harmed, as him being online confirms that. If you're very concerned, I would contact a close friend or a parent.
over 9 years
Yeah but ignore me since 9:09 AM March 3rd? That's such a long time tbh.