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internal issues with the mod team

almost 10 years

i wasn't planning on making a thread about this but i was having a conversation with someone and i had a realization that this is probably an issue that needs to be discussed in some capacity.

to start, the mods have this idea that the entire site is against them. because of this they try to minimize every sort of conflict possible, whether it be internal or external. most administrative decisions are becoming "how can i stop people from complaining," and for me at least, it made being a mod frustrating and not fun.

i'm not entirely sure how the mod team adopted this culture of appeasing every possible party, but from the inside at least, it's pretty obvious. mods aren't allowed to post on the forums or get into arguments at all, even as regular users, and it's a huge sacrifice of individuality. because of this, they're pretty much forced to take every insult directed at them with a smile, and it's created a culture of self-pitying, spineless mods that can't take any criticism. they can put it under the guise of professionalism, but at the end of the day there is no individuality there, and the mods are forced to meet the ridiculous standards of professionalism that vancy and others have set for them. there's a reason why you don't have mods that are regular forum posters anymore. regardless of how good of a choice they'd be, they aren't modded because they're either deemed "too unprofessional," "too controversial," or "not a team player." this means that most new mods are going to be spineless conformists that are afraid to disagree or have a mind of their own, just because if they do happen to disagree, they aren't being a good "team member."

when dan was an admin, he set up a good foundation for the moderators. i think he has a bachelor's in human resources or something, so that's probably where it stemmed from. either way, when he was an admin, all of us worked together efficiently and happily, and there weren't really any stragglers. that's because he had a really good attitude about being an administrator that i don't really think any other admin has had. dan was a leader, but he treated the mod team as a business with a very horizontal structure, where pretty much everyone was an equal, including him. that kind of attitude removed unhealthy conflict and created an atmosphere where everyone wanted to help each other. this idea of everyone being equal should come naturally, but for vancy and some other mods, it doesn't. there is blatant favoritism between the admins and mods, and between the mods themselves.

on top of that, vancy has somewhat of an authoritarian attitude where he isn't working with the mods, but the mods are working /for/ him and they have to answer /to/ him. this kind of attitude is absolutely ridiculous and creates an incredibly unhealthy and vitriolic atmosphere where it feels like if you disagree with him, you're working against him. there's no room for any sort of healthy conflict or discussion, because at the end of the day he has the final say. i've experienced it firsthand and i'm sure some mods agree with me too.

in summary: the mods have created this culture where they think everyone is against them so they try to reduce complaints as much as possible and it made them spineless, only "professional people" that will "work well with the team" can be modded, there is blatant favoritism between the admins and mods and the mods themselves, and vancy has an attitude that he isn't working with the mods but the mods are working for him.

this isn't meant to be an attack on vancy. i don't want him to respond. if he does, i'm sure he'll disagree with me on most of this, and i wouldn't blame him if he did, but this is what i noticed when i came back as a mod, and i never had these issues when dan was around. at the end of the day, mod culture sucks.

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justrec says

So in your eyes, when you make valid points, you expect something to be done. When people make valid points against you, you just ignore them with witty insults and receive various upvotes for your cause.


try not being a passive-aggressive tool and people will take you seriously
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in retrospect, trial mods wasn't that bad of an idea. the intention was to find qualified people outside of people that we already knew. the problem was that arcbell used it for howl and petri - people that we already knew.
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QRich says


Retti says


QRich says


Retti says

knowing that both justrec and tlc dislike me just gives me more confidence about myself


That's really funny that you think I would develop any sort of emotional attachment to you other than sheer acknowledgment that your decisions as a moderator were poor.

I understand you make the mistake of thinking I'm like most people.



you seemed pretty mad when that report you appealed on me got sustained


Part of not having a vindictive personality is forgetting things.

I also have a bad memory.

I'm also rarely, if ever genuinely angry. I think you misconstrue intentional pessimism as anger.


Perhaps it's unconcious pessimism, or even shaped pessimism... Hmm...
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So in your eyes, when you make valid points, you expect something to be done. When people make valid points against you, you just ignore them with witty insults and receive various upvotes for your cause.
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Nonon says


Orly says

as in, none of this matters. at all.


how could i not see it? thank you vexium. you have enlightened me


you're welcome. that's what i'm here for.
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Retti says


QRich says


Retti says

knowing that both justrec and tlc dislike me just gives me more confidence about myself


That's really funny that you think I would develop any sort of emotional attachment to you other than sheer acknowledgment that your decisions as a moderator were poor.

I understand you make the mistake of thinking I'm like most people.



you seemed pretty mad when that report you appealed on me got sustained


Part of not having a vindictive personality is forgetting things.

I also have a bad memory.

I'm also rarely, if ever genuinely angry. I think you misconstrue intentional pessimism as anger.
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none of this matters but that doesn't mean we can't make the most out of it while we're here
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i for one will miss EM when its gone
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Orly says

as in, none of this matters. at all.


how could i not see it? thank you vexium. you have enlightened me
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justrec says


Skepticism says

Retti's Journal: they're being mean to me, i quit, i'm never coming back.



time to start disrespecting other members again





Accurate.
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jackattack123 says

This is just turning into a pp measuring contest and its pretty lame


thank tlc and justrec for that
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this thread is so bad that i'm going to STAY in it to try and save it
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Skepticism says

Retti's Journal: they're being mean to me, i quit, i'm never coming back.



time to start disrespecting other members again

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This is just turning into a pp measuring contest and its pretty lame
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as in, none of this matters. at all.
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i dont have a journal..perhaps you have mistaken me for someone else? O_o
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Whatever I think part of my unbanning involves not being allowed to complain against the mod team so I'll skedaddle
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justrec says


Sims says

put down the thesaurus


Sheer defeat.


not really. tlc is just too dumb to realize me and him agree that people shouldn't be disqualified just for being confrontational. his only problem is using riddler as an example
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i think you should all admit that EM is dying and accept what that means for the future
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this thread went tumbling down
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Retti's Journal. Every Entry: I am sick of everyone disrespecting the moderators. I fully support their rise to power. Pesky preachers like Jesse Jackson and JustRec are getting in the way. I will have to fight fire with fire in order to remain being taken seriously.
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Sheer defeat.
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Nonon says


QRich says

I understand you make the mistake of thinking I'm like most people.






Oh, you are one of those people that uses the word "edgy" erroneously as a synonym for "counter-culture".

Well, your improper usage of language aside, that's fine as long as you acknowledge I'm simply better than you.