thanks for writing in the verdict what i already said lmfao

There’s millions of people who grew up thinking that way and they realized it was wrong and make a conscious decision to change their paradigm. You recognize that you think that way and don’t try to change it, that’s homophobic.

Again I’m not trying to justify that mindset or view point but it’s something that is mostly unconsciously thought of it’s not like I go out of my way to think like that and even that thinking isnt that bad alone because I have nothing against gay people

I said by his definition of homophobia it isn’t my fault for being conditioned by society to have a perspective like heteronormality I don’t consider myself anywhere near homophobic I went off his definition which applied anyone thinking that is homophobic

im not working off his view of homophobia

apparently you tried to reason that you're this way (whether it be homophobic or not) because society formed you that way or some nonsense

Denial I really don’t feel like continuing this his definition of homophobia is thinking heterosexual is normal and being gay is different and because I think being gay is different from the norm I’m a homophobe also I’m 17.

this has 85 comments lmao

Happy new year!

also arent you a 16 year old american?

where do you live in where homophobia is imposed on you

Even if you were pushed to use the word unflattering why would you use that to describe anyone?

'I don't find men attractive' 'I think men are unflattering' do you see how that word kinda doesn't make sense when you claim to be generalizing all men

Find a new way to act when you're defensive and on edge then, because homophobic comments are fùcking ugly.

Man, I sent that last post before I saw you posting your stupid dictionary shīt. You really are as useless as they come, I thought you were someone that could reason, even be it a small amount, but alas, no. You can't accept that you said offensive shīt and all you do is defend your stance. I legitimately changed tones when you apologized, but apparently you didn't mean it.

I’m sorry Jeff I’m not trying to be offensive to you and when you are aggressive towards me I feel like your attacking me as a person and I resort to being defensive and on edge. I know my views are skewed and probably wrong because I don’t know how it is from your perspective but when you were aggressive towards me I resorted to being stubborn.

You apologized, you’re ahead. Just stop responding, acknowledge that I as a gay male can help you understand better what gay people find offensive, say okay, and move on with it. Yeah I was a cünt and aggressive but realize that it doesn’t diminish the things I said from being true. You were wrong many times and I was an asśhole many times. Both of us can learn and be better, stop being so damn stubborn that you discredit all the valuable things you can actually learn here and change your paradigm.

Definition of homophobia

: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against

I have no fear or aversion to gay people your pushing your own connotative definition of homophobia against me and I’m using the denotative definition and your saying I’m wrong

You simply just do not know what homophobia means. I don’t think you hate gay people. I said that multiple times, but hating gays is not what homophobia is.

I was informing you how your heteronormative views are homophobic and you won’t accept that they are. No one pushed an agenda on you, they asked you to reconsider the narrative that you feel society placed upon you.

can you guys just stop arguing, everything that has needed to be said has been said

Never once did I call you privileged.

I don’t resort to homophobia when I’m angry you were constantly pushing an agenda that I was a priveleaged straight male who was homophobic to gay people and I was sick of it because I know I’m not

About fuçking time.

Even though I hate you with my guts. Because I’m not a homophobe

I’m sorry to the LGBTQ+ community because I have nothing bad to say about you I have nothing against gay people you can do whatever you want it’s none of my business I’m sorry if you read this and think I have something against you because I don’t and I have nothing but respect for you guys.

You cheated in Main Lobby.
You got banned from Vivor for harassment.
You ruined multiple trophy games that hosts our DAYS into planning by bypassing in them.
You resort to homophobia in times of anger.
Yeah, you’re pretty fücking .

Apologize to the LGBTQ+ community that you insulted and marginalized because you were angry at someone on the Internet you pathetic fuçk.

It’s hard to say I was wrong to you when you’ve been extremely rude and mean to me when I initially came into the convo with a open mind and I tried to listen to your point but all you did was constantly flip what I said against me make everything out into me beint a horrible person so yea it’s hard to apologize to you

Imagine still defending your reasons for saying that instead of apologizing to the community that you minimized the plight of. This shows a fundamental flaw in your personality. You refuse to flat out say "I was wrong".